Episode 66

American Groove - #65 Venus Xtravaganza xoxo

This episode is in honor of:

Venus Xtravaganza

May 22, 1965 – December 21, 1988

"I just hope to god nothing in the long run will stop us, nothing get's in our way, I want children, I want to adopt. I want to be with the man I love. And if things just don't work out with him, I'm still going to go for it, and do whatever it is, and be on my own."

-Venus Xtravaganza

Paris is Burning - Deleted Scenes

Her story is not long sadly, but it is beautiful . We spent some time diving deep into the life and legacy of Venus Xtravaganza. A trans woman who became a poignant figure in the ballroom scene of 1980s New York. Reflecting on her tragic murder just four days from Christmas. The impact of her life, as documented in the influential film "Paris is Burning." Venus's story is a stark reminder of the harsh realities faced by the trans community during the 80's NYC. It was both heart-wrenching and inspiring to discuss her resilience. Her wanting for life and having a family and seeing herself as independent woman. Seeing herself as Venus.

Karissa and I also explored broader themes related to the LGBT community. Also known as the shit your not supposed to talk about otherwise you get cancelled. Touching on the importance of representation and the complexities of identity. This doesn't mean you have to be woke about it and shoving your opinion's on others. Learning from Venus's experiences and how it resonates today. Shedding light on the ongoing struggles, and the progress within the community. Our talk, was a mix of historical reflection, personal insight, and honoring Venus's legacy. while also sparking thought on current societal issues, that drive us fucking crazy. This month instead of pride, why don't we be us for a change.

The host of American groove is Karissa Andrews. A licensed aesthetician, makeup artist and lover of pugs. The best part is that you can check out her work on Instagram: 

We have a magical link below with all our socials and handle so you can find us on your favorite pod spot.

Karissa's name for the week is " Up All Night"

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Dave lennon

Lost in the Groove is my space to explore the real, raw, and unexpected. I started this podcast because I was tired of feeling like nothing ever changes. My therapist once suggested, I write letters to the government to express my frustrations. Then I thought, "Why not create a podcast instead?" Here, I can talk about what I want, with whoever I want, no matter their beliefs. For me, it's about having honest conversations,. Breaking down walls, and getting people to think beyond the surface.

I grew up in a blue-collar family in the suburbs outside New York City, raised as an Orthodox Jew. Leaving the religious community in 2017 was a pivotal moment for me. It allowed me to embrace my identity as an artist, and chart my own path. Who I am today, and what this podcast represents, is deeply tied to my journey. Leaving a community that was a cult; still is. Discovering authenticity, creativity, and independence in myself.

I’m a car enthusiast, an artist, and someone who thrives on creative expression. From old-school rap, and psychedelic rock. To vintage muscle cars and European classics. I’m all about the things that inspire passion.
My co-host, Karissa Andrews, joins me for American Groove. Our segment on stoner culture, and life’s weirder twists. She’s an incredibly talented makeup artist, aesthetician, and candle maker. She brings a spice, pizazz, and realness to every conversation.

This podcast isn’t about chasing fame or conforming to trends, it’s about the experience. I want listener, whether they’re driving home, cooking, or just unwinding. To feel like they’re part of something real. Lost in the Groove is my way of staying true to myself, while connecting with others. learning, and having fun along the way.